Wednesday, December 21, 2022

The Silence of Christmas

This week's prompt at Rain's Thursday Art and Dinner Date is "A Christmas Scene". For this I will share a blogpost again that I already posted a couple times. Last year, Elephant's Child commented that I can repost this each and every year. I am following her advice.

In Germany, our “big day” is not Christmas Day (and we even have two of them!) but Christmas Eve – Heilig Abend (Holy Eve) as it is called. It usually starts out hectic, often with the last big shopping because all of the stores and supermarkets will be closed for the following two days. But around 2:00 pm the shops (including the grocery stores) close and by 3:00 pm at the latest a magical silence covers the entire country like a beautiful veil. The ideal December 24th brings snow in the afternoon and turns the world into a winter wonderland by the time the first church bells start to ring.

Oh, the sound of church bells – how much do I miss this! They ring every day (at 6:00 or 7:00 in the morning, at noon and again at 6:00 pm), but on Christmas Eve all the bells are ringing, from the smallest, highest pitch to the biggest one with the deepest, loudest sound. It’s a concert of bells that resounds through the silence, calling for mass. Christmas services start in the later afternoon, the first ones mainly for smaller children, showing nativity plays and involving the kids. Later in the evening follow the more “grown-up” services with meaningful sermons and the old German Christmas carols sung by the congregation. Everybody knows these songs and since the churches are always packed on Christmas Eve it is a strong and joyful singing.

 

After church it’s back home – and waiting for Christkind (Christ Child). Yes – it often is not Santa coming through the chimney (there are not that many houses with a fireplace anyway) but Christkind. When I was a child I always envisioned Christkind with golden curly hair and a flowing white dress, an angelic smile on its face. It would place the presents in “die gute Stube” (“the good room” = living room) and magically disappear, unseen by anyone. The children are called in and they stand in awe looking at the Christmas tree – that was brought in and decorated only the day before (or even in the morning) and very often carries real candles on its branches. I have always loved the real candles, it smells differently and the whole atmosphere is – yes, magical. After singing a few Christmas carols everybody opens their presents accompanied by Christmas music on the radio.

 

And if you’re still awake or missed the afternoon/evening service you can go to midnight mass – always my favorite Christmas service. A huge tree is lit (some with real candles – we live dangerously in Germany!), the atmosphere is festive and peaceful – it is our “Silent Night, Holy Night”.




May the magic of Christmas touch your heart, wherever you are.


25 comments:

roentare said...

Your first image looks being shattered in a way. Very abstract in a way. The bokeh in the 2nd shot is quite effective in isolating the nutcracker

Iris Flavia said...

Ja, das nervt mich schon jetzt, diese Weihnachts-Panik! 2 Tage lang kann man nichts zu Essen kaufen! Wir werden alle verhungern!!!

Am liebsten wäre ich jetzt in Perth. Warm und Groceries sind für ein paar Stunden offen.
Hier hört man keine Glocken (Wohngebiet).
Oh, jeh, ja, die echten Kerzen im Baum! Weihnachten war der totale Stress nachdem einmal der Adventskranz in Flammen aufging. Ich war 4 und allein. Gut, dass ich sehr laut brüllen kann ;-)
Möge das Christkind bei euch vorbeikommen! :-)
Frohe Weihnachten wünsche ich euch und einen guten Rutsch ins Neue Jahr.

Elephant's Child said...

Thank you so very much. I love this just as much as I ever did.

David M. Gascoigne, said...

A very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year, Carola, from Miriam and me to you and your lovely family. May 2023 bring joy and happiness. Hugs - David

kathyinozarks said...

so beautiful

Christine said...

Lovely nativity scene! This is a beautiful post a great idea to repost every year! Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

Rostrose said...

Liebe Carola,
ja, so ungefähr kennen wir Weihnachten hier auch, allerdings wird das mit dem Kirchengeläut im "nicht so ländlichen Raum" nicht so eng gesehen. Ich habe ehrlich gesagt keine Ahnung, wie viele Messen es in unserem Ort am 24. gibt. (Ich war nur einmal bei einer Weihnachtsmesse, und zwar als Kind, als wir im Salzburgischen Urlaub machten - weil ich dort mit einem Ministranten befreundet war.)
Aber auch hier feiern wir am 24. und es kommt das Christkind, das wie ein weiblicher Engel aussieht ;-)) In diesem Jahr wird am 24. auch tatsächlich die Familie da sein, im vorigen Jahr kamen wir erst am 25. dran, da durften die Eltern von Janas Partner am 24. mit dem Enkelkind feiern. Nächstes Jahr wieder wieder gewechselt. Bei uns geht es immer sehr gemütlich, locker uns stressfrei zu, ganz ohne Geschenkeorgie, ohne Stress und ohne Probleme wegen der geschlossenen Läden :-)
Ich wünsche dir und deinen Lieben wunderschöne Weihnachtstage
and alles Gute für 2023, Traude
🍎🕯️🎄🌟🎄🕯️🍎
https://rostrose.blogspot.com/2022/12/costa-ricanische-weihnachtsgrue.html

Valerie-Jael said...

Wonderful post. I always love the bells, too, and have done since I was a kid. Thanks you for your kindness this year, I treasure the 2 beautiful cards I received from you, thanks so much! Happy Christmas to you and yours, stay safe and well, hugs, Valerie

Gillena Cox said...

Hi Carola. This the first time i am reading this post. Very interesting. I'm amazed by the candles on the Christmas Tree.
Have a Merry Christmas. Thanks for dropping by my blog.

Much❤love

Michelle said...

The Nativity photo is beautiful. Christmas Eve is the big event here for our family, too. Wishing you a very Merry Christmas!

Gretchen Joanna said...

My late husband and I both had German ancestors, so the tradition of celebrating Christmas Eve was natural for us, and we continued it with our children. I loved reading about the still traditional Christmas in Germany itself. Thank you!

Veronica Lee said...

Beautiful Nativity scene, Carola.

Wishing you a blessed and joyous Christmas 🎄

Tom said...

...Carola, I wish you a joyous Christmas. Stay warm and well.

Lowcarb team member said...

Such a good post.
Wishing you and yours a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

All the best Jan

Lorrie said...

What lovely memories and traditions, Carola. I am so glad that here in Canada we get two days for Christmas. We always go to church on Christmas Eve and I so enjoy singing the old carols.
Merry Christmas to you and yours.

Lorrie said...

Oh, I wanted to say that one year our daughter and her husband were in Switzerland for Christmas. On Christmas Eve she used Skype to call us, in the morning for us, evening for her. She took the computer to the window and opened it so that we could hear the beautiful sound of church bells on Christmas Eve. I will never forget their joyous sound.

Elderberry-Rob said...

This is such a lovely post and I enjoyed reading about your traditions. Merry Christmas (visiting from Rain's art date). Betty

ashok said...

Happy Christmas !

Andrea @ From The Sol said...

Your Christmas is as it should be focusing on the meaning of Christmas. I love the idea of a real tree with real candles, though I find it a bit frightening. Everything about your story says happiness, family and joy. I wish you another wonderful Christmas, Carola ... celebrated in a your meaningful way.

Andrea @ From the Sol

My name is Erika. said...

This is a lovely post and I think it was worth reposting Carola. I hope you have a very lovely holiday today. Merry Christmas. hugs-Erika

DVArtist said...

Stopping by to wish you a happy Christmas.

Beatrice P. Boyd said...

Thank you, Carola, for sharing the memories of how you remember Christmas being celebrated through the beauty of words and photos. Years ago, lit candles were in trees in many countries and I was fortunate enough to see them in a church and have never forgotten the beauty of that moment. I hope you and the Geek had a memorable holiday this year wherever and however it was celebrated.

NatureFootstep said...

In Sweden as well it is Christmas Eve that is the most important :)

Jeanie said...

I love reading about your traditions from Germany. Learning about the customs of other places is one of my favorite things about visiting blogs!

Rain said...

This was such a nice post Carola! I remember going to midnight mass as a kid, it was all so magical! ♥