Thursday, January 16, 2025

A Good Neighbor

 

There is a beautiful big pasture in our neighborhood. I wrote about it here in 2016 when it was for sale and we all were worried that new development would destroy this precious little corner. 

Thankfully someone in the neighborhood stepped up and bought it, so that its rural character could be preserved. There was a big sigh of relief going through my neighborhood.

We all agree that our very best neighbor was living here.

No one knew what his real name was - he was just Donkey. Some kids called him Don Quixote which I think was very smart. Kaefer and I called him Donkers, and whenever you called him by whatever name, he came running down to the fence, expecting some nose rubs and, even more, some food. 

Carrots might have been his favorite food. He loved them and never gobbled them down, but chewed them very carefully and thoughtfully. 


He certainly didn't have the best teeth anymore, though.

He was owned by the people who live above the pasture. He was rescued from BLM land about 30 years ago and quickly became an integral part of our community. He loved us and we loved him back. My friend Matt lives right across from the pasture and says that Donkers made his demands for fresh carrots pretty clear when he saw Matt standing in his kitchen (which faces the meadow).


I could hear him braying even inside our home with all the windows closed - granted, I only live a couple minutes away from the pasture.


I was particularly fond of his ears.


On the first Saturday of the new year, Donkers was found dead in his pasture. He had been suffering from Cushing's Disease (which none of us knew), but despite the disease he was around 40 years old. That is quite an old age for donkeys whose average lifespan is 33 years.

He even made it in the paper.


Our tight knit neighborhood came out with a little memorial at Donkers' gate.



I think we will all miss him. The pasture is not the same without him. But I'm sure he will keep on living in our hearts and the children will always fondly remember him. I know that Kaefer does.

This is the last photo I took of him, just a few weeks before he passed.


His sweet face is my contribution to Nicole's Friday Face Off.




19 comments:

Elephant's Child said...

Awww. This is such a sweet (and a little sad) post. Vale Donkers.

roentare said...

So cute to see them getting fed

Mae Travels said...

Animals make us human, don’t they?

Tom said...

...heart warming.

My name is Erika. said...

It sounds like he had a great life after being rescued, and he was adorable. So sorry for your neighborhood's loss. He was such a cutie. hugs-Erika

Jeanie said...

This is so sad, although it's clear that Donkers had a good life and a lot of people who loved and looked after him. The notes on the fence are especially touching and I really love all the photos. But what a sad day it must have been to find him.

Iris Flavia said...

Bitter-süßer Post. Ich liebe Esel.

Granny Annie said...

I did not know when I started reading this that I would end up in tears. What a precious boy Donkers was..

Christine said...

Lovely post

DVArtist said...

Awwwww poor Donkers. What a life he had and so many love him. Thank you so much for sharing his story with FFO. Have a nice weekend.

Rostrose said...

Oooooch! Was für eine berührende Geschichte! Aber eines ist sicher, Donkers hatte ein tolles Eselleben. So viel geliebt, so oft gestreichelt und beachtet und mit Karotten und anderen Leckereien gefüttert... und nun sogar ein Nachruf in der Zeitung und eine kleine Gedenkstätte mit Blumen, Äpfeln und Briefen! Soo lieb! All dieses Glück haben nicht viele Esel dieser Welt. Und er selbst hatte ja ursprünglich auch nicht so ein gutes Leben; du schreibst er wurde gerettet "from BLM land", ich nehme an, das ist eine Tierschutzorganisation? Vielleicht gibt es ja einen Nachfolger für Donkers, der ebenfalls ein paar Jahre lang noch ein schönes Leben haben sollte? Das kann ihn nicht ersetzen, aber es kann ein anderes Tier glücklich machen und für euch die Weide wieder zu einem belebten Ort... (?) Würde mich freuen!
Alles Liebe aus Österreich, Traude
https://rostrose.blogspot.com/2025/01/september-wochenende-in-der-wachau.html

Michelle said...

What a special friend to everyone. May Donkers be resting in peace.

peppylady (Dora) said...

May be rest in peace.

David M. Gascoigne, said...

To all creatures there comes an end, Carola, but we may all rejoice that Donkers enjoyed life and brought so much joy to human admirers, perhaps even fostering a lifelong love of nature and our fellow travellers on our very brief stay on this Blue Dot. One might only wish that he had a companion but it’s quite possible that kind humans became acceptable surrogates. When I think of the way that donkeys are mistreated in so many parts of the world I rejoice that Donkers lived so long. May the memory of this special animal be a blessing. Huge hugs - David




carol l mckenna said...

Beautiful donkey and what a great neighborhood honoring the sweet donkey ~ hugs,

Wishing you good health, laughter and love in your days,
clm ~ A ShutterBug Explores,
aka (A Creative Harbor)

https://linsartyblobs.blogspot.com said...

I'm glad he enjoyed his life after being rescued.

Violetta said...

Gut, das das schöne Fleckchen erhalten geblieben ist und nicht irgendeinem Gebäude weichen mußte. Und schade, daß der Esel nicht mehr ist...aber das ist ja der Lauf des Lebens. Den Brief finde ich besonders nett.
Alles Liebe und danke für Deinen netten Besuch bei mir.
Violetta

Beatrice P. Boyd said...

What a bittersweet post, Carola, Donkers was certainly a much loved donkey in the neighborhood. Nice also that a neighbor bought the pasture saving it from development. perhaps, one day there will be another inhabitant.

Teresa said...

Siento tristeza por el. Besos.